A story and a question to illustrate how we tend to blame the victim.
“We blame the victim, so we can distance ourselves from the possibility of bad things ever happening to us. It can never happen to us because we’re smart, we follow the rules, we know better.
If you repeat this a million times it seems like simple logic. Our ideal society claims rape is bad, but in our real culture only 6% of rapists ever see a day in jail.” (From the post)
Let me ask a question from IHM
The story is retold by IHM and the question asked. You can read the various answers here.