“This is Vivek Thakur,” brother-in law said waving his hand at a man standing next to him.
Sis and I had just joined him near the musical fountain, after a leisurely stroll, enjoying the sights at the aquarium in Dubai Mall.
Huh???!
I did a double take, giving a second more closer look at the man in front of me. A man in his mid-fifties, very fair, clean shaven, a mop of grey hair, glasses.
Nah! It couldn’t be him, not even in a disguise!
“Hello” I said politely accepting the man’s hand in greeting.
Turning back to my brother-in-law I asked,
“You said Vivek Thakur, right??”
“Yes, Vivek Thakur…” he said. “What’s the matter??” he asked raising his eyebrows, noticing the look on my face.
The man concerned was also looking at me curiously as was another common friend of theirs standing nearby.
“Ohh, I have a very good friend by that name” I replied at the same time that my sis said, “She has a friend by that name.”
“An engineer to boot,” added my sis. It turned out that there was a difference apart from the spelling in their names. Unlike my Civil Engineer friend this man was a Chemical Engineer by profession.
There were smiles all around at the coincidence, more so when brother-in-law, in that mischievous way of his, asked me,
“Are you sure this is not your friend?? Take a proper look!!”
“I am pretty sure!!!” I replied laughing out loud. I have met my friend Vivek Thaokar, you see. It was just that the similar name caught me off guard for a moment.
Now, this isn’t something extraordinary, I am sure. There are people with similar sounding names.
Take my own example. I know there is a writer by the name ‘Shailaja Mohan’ who has published books (stories for children) to her credit. I have had some people asking me if those books have been authored by me. That is one of the reasons I stick to the shortened version of my name Shail, hoping that there is none else around by that name. To my chagrin I found otherwise.
One day, preparing to comment on a blog I had just read, I found to my surprise that I already had. Perplexed to the extreme, I read the comment. It looked like something I would say too, which confused me even more since I was dead sure I had only just then read the blog. The mystery was solved when I realized it was Shail Raghuvanshi. She had left out the Raghuvanshi part of her name in her comment just as I leave out the Mohan part of mine.
Coming back to Vivek Thakur, as the evening progressed, I found him to be a good an intelligent and well read gentleman. Predictably so, Wodehouse figured in his ‘have read’ list, in fact the whole lot of them.
“Did you tell him about your son??” my sis asked me.
“What about him?? Ohh ahhh.. yes!” I replied
I had forgotten something.
“My son is also Vivek.” I told him.
Though I did not tell him the rest of it, once again the thought struck me about how I seem to be inextricably connected to the name Vivek.
It is a name which I chose for my senior son more than a quarter century back, from all the thousands of names available. No, I did not have any other alternatives in mind to choose from, only this one name and I was pretty sure that is what I wanted to name my first born. The Lord & Master was okay with it and so Vivek he became. He had a few classmates by the same name during his Engineering College days and one of them used to be a frequent visitor at home too.
When I began blogging along came a penguin by the name of Vivek Thaokar and we became friends. Besides him I have five different Viveks commenting on my posts. Sometimes I add an extra alphabet to their name to keep track of who is who.
Once when I remarked to Vivek Nicholas about how I seem to be connected to more people by the name of Vivek than any other, he told me something about there existing a cosmic connection between the name Vivek and I. He did not go into details though he said he could tell me more later on. I tend to believe him by the way I seem to bump into people who are named Vivek.
By the way my favorite singer Jagjit Singh and his wife Chitra Singh had a son named Vivek too. And of course it goes without saying, I admire Swami Vivekananda.
Aah! Vivek is a celebrity, now that he’s been mentioned in your blog, Shail! Names can result in funny mix-ups. One of my ex-managers was also a volunteer professor with IIM-K. One day he asked me if I knew Vikram Chandra. I said of course. I am a fan.
My manager had a funny look. “Yes, yes, he’s quite a lady’s man. A friendly chap too.”
Now I look puzzled. But I plodded on. “His collection of short stories – Love and Longing in Bombay, is one of the best I’ve read.”
“Oh! He writes also is it?”
“Hmm…as far as I know, he ONLY writes.”
“So he’s very famous and all that is it?”
“Of course…best selling author.”
“Wow. If you look at him, he’s like the guy next door. Can’t make out he’s so famous.”
“Wait a minute! YOU HAVE MET HIM? CAN I MEET HIM?”
“Yes, he is my student.”
“Eh?”
“In my software engineering class.”
It was only then it dawned on me…that he was talking about someone else…who also happens to be my friend, but whose first name is not vinay, not vikram, but last name is chandra. Everytime the three of us meet up, we have a good laugh on this. esp since Vinay can’t even sit through a comic reading session, let alone write books!
@Sumana,
Priceless. You had me laughing imagining the scene unfolding! 😆
Btw, if Vivek is a celebrity by being mentioned at Shail’s Nest, I guess he is one many times over 😛 Besides, he has one whole blog, all to himself! 😀
@Shail – correction – it should read *whose first name is vinay, not vikram. Yes, it was too funny. one of those ‘snorted the rasam up my nostrils’ moment…since we were having this chat over lunch.
will check out vivek’s blog 🙂
@Sumana,
Lol, thanks for clarifying. I was feeling unequal to the task of answering, “If not Vinay , not Vikram then What Chandra??” and was on the point of giving up when you came to my rescue. 😀 Now the mystery is solved.
Did you ask the Chemical Vivek (borrowed from the name ‘Chemical Ali’) to give you a chemical to color Civil Vivek’s hair? Must have been a hair raising moment for you.
So which Vivek is a celebrity now? I mean all five of us Viveks would be. A cosmic connection huh? I hope you have not added an extra “A” after my name, would make me feel very feminine lol.
@Vivek,
‘Twas a hair raising moment alright. But it never crossed my mind to ask Chemical Vivek for a dye as Civil Vivek looks just as handsome with his white mane.
As to which Vivek is the celebrity, your guess is as good as mine! 😉
Funny for me its Abu, I named my first born Ishaan but I call him Abu … and have four friends with the same name. BTW for me, it was the poem Abu Ben Adam, that inspired me into calling Kid#1 Abu
@Phoenixritu,
I don’t know why I wanted the name Vivek for my first born. Of one thing I was certain. I was NOT going to name my children after any Gods, only qualities. So Vivek seemed sort of appropriate.
Funny and confusing. Thankfully there are not many Ruchiras in the blog world ! Although I do come accross the odd ones who think my name is Nirjharini(thats the name of my blog 🙂 )
@Ruchira,
Ahh, yeah, an easy enough mistake to call you Nirjharini 🙂
You shouldnt go to chennai then; there are a lot of viveks showrooms in chennai ! 😀 😀 😀
@vimmuuu,
Oh we have them here as well, though not as many. There is a Vivek Medicals at Vazhuthacaud 😀 😀
Coincidences and coincidences! Sometimes, as you say, there is an intertwining, that is meant to be! Just that… a cosmic connection as you say!
Usha, a common name no doubt, is in abundance, in our own family! My sister in law is named the same (husband’s cousin), so I am velia usha, and she is cheriya usha! Worse off are another uncle, whose daughter and daughter in law are named Usha… LOL! And more, right within the family circle. So when one calls and says this is Usha, one has to further clarify which one :D! Maddening! Of late, in my life are an abundance of coincidences, lovely ones… for later perhaps, for me to share 🙂
Nice one, Shail 🙂
@Usha,
I can imagine. A somewhat similar situation exists in my Uncle’s house with many Ushas 😛 Waiting to read about the lovely coincidences! 😀
Thank you Usha.
hehe !! And many times at first I mistook yours for Shail Raghuvanshi’s second blog for a long time 😀
And about this cosmic connection , let us all know what he says 😀 Good luck with ‘VIveks’
@Krishnaleela,
Lol, did you?? 🙂 Yeah, will surely do so if/when he does tell me 🙂
That is why it took me a long time to get to your blog . 😀
@Krishnaleela,
I am glad you found your way here, in more ways than one! 😉 I should thank you for all the timely help 🙂
Oh wow!! I didn’t know there could be a cosmic connection between names and people. Really? Wow! Food for thought….
@pallavi,
I simply have to believe that. Its amazing the Viveks I seem to come across 🙂
YEah SO many viveks i had a couple classmates … but for some reasion i was not on good terms with them 😦
good luck to all the viveks…
and I remmeber going to this show where Jagjit singh’s son was playing instruments.. sad he is not anymore …
Bikram’s
@Bikram,
Yeah, sad about Jagjit Singh’s son.
Yes, good luck to all the Viveks and also to you… Thank you 🙂
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