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One day I was taking an after dinner stroll on the terrace of my house when I saw bright colorful sparks lighting up the distant sky. Fireworks! It was the festival season and some temple or other was having a display as part of the celebration. I debated whether to go down and get my camera. It was a good opportunity to hone one’s skills at capturing lights in the night sky. But the fact of the matter was that the distance was too great. Besides, the whole show was sure to get over by the time I rushed downstairs got the camera, and huffed and puffed my way back. So I chose to simply watch. That’s when the answer came to me to something that had been in my mind for a long time.
To know what that was, one needs to rewind to a time months back, and a conversation I had with the First Born. I don’t remember what exactly led to it, but he happened to mention how at a fireworks display he had last been to, there was a man behind him who was clicking pictures all the time the show was on. I doubt he saw even part of the entire show other than through his lens, he told me. What about enjoying the show?
Probably some of you are already nodding your heads in agreement. I have heard much the same opinion from a lot of others in my friends (and also the foes-) circle. They talk disdainfully of those who whip out their cameras at prominent tourist locations. How about enjoying what you have come to see instead of taking pictures, they ask in irritation. Excuse me if I break your bubble. But what if they have come to take pictures? What if taking pictures is what gives them joy?
When I thought about it, I could come up with more reasons as to why a person could have been clicking away instead of watching a fireworks display. I will enumerate them for you:
- They do NOT actually enjoy it and have been dragged there by someone, so think they might as well make the best of it by photographing the whole event.
- Their enjoyment lies in showing off to friends and relatives that they had been to a prestigious show.
- Their field of interest is photography which is the reason they are there, to see how best they can capture the display. Shucks, I didn’t get that right. I wonder when and where the next display is. I really gotta practice to get these night shots right. (That could well have been me!)
- They are on a job, sent there by the editor or someone like that explicitly for the express purpose of covering the event. You better not come back without the best pictures John/Jane!
- They promised someone back home (a sick child/spouse who could not make it perhaps) that they would cover the whole event and get them all the pictures so they wouldn’t feel as if they missed it.
- They got themselves a new camera and want to test it.
- They want everyone to know they have a new and expensive camera, what better way than to click a few (okay, a lot many) good pictures?
- (Add your own reason, if you have any)
So yes, you love watching something with your naked eye. Fine. Nay, that is indeed GREAT! But is that reason enough to want others to be like you, think, feel, and also want to do things just like you? Suppose one day you go to see the Great Wall of China. You are walking along the wall, marveling at the construction, enjoying the feel of the place, the view, when you notice someone standing next to you and clicking away. You turn up your nose at them (and their actions) and come over all hoity-toity. Why? How difficult is it to understand or accept that some may (or DO) prefer taking pictures to enjoying the view or soaking in atmosphere. Just as there exist those who like both in different degrees. You see, we are all different, not clones of each other.
And now, these are some photographs I clicked from last Diwali from the celebrations in my neighborhood. And no, they have got nothing to do with the post other than the fact that the pictures seem to go with the topic. I have a long way to go in getting better shots of them (tricky) fireworks. But this seems a good start (hopefully)!
And on that note, I kick off the New Year at Shail’s Nest 🙂
©Shail Mohan 2015
Hidden Passions said:
Oh another reason – I want to go back to that memory lane and pictures certainly help me re-collect. Yes, I click away lots of pictures and restrict myself when I need to.
The only problem i faced was- when I went to a concert, that I have been long waiting to go for ages. There was this person in the back row with flash light on his mobile phone for video shooting, that was such a bright light all along and it was very annoying and very unpleasant.
You see, for the person who loves photography, will no doubt enjoy it and people who are in the picture love to be part of it.. for others, depending on the situation/occasion it could be irritating or annoying.
shail said:
Omg, I cannot believe I left out the most important reason of all, how we go back and enjoy the times past. 🙂 I guess that’s what comes of writing when you are half asleep 😀
Bright light at a concert is such a turn off and inconvenience, I agree.
It is irritating and annoying for the photographers too, to be constantly told that they are not enjoying the view and are busy clicking. 🙂
Saya said:
good points all of them…we are quick in judging others and don’t even realize it do we..
shail said:
Yes, we are. At first I almost agreed with my son, but I felt something amiss, and then the answer came to me. Why do we expect everyone to be at a place for the same reason? We all have different aims/views/reasons in life 🙂
Saya said:
true.. 🙂 not actually a wake up call but pretty close to it for me.. 🙂 good one..
Saya said:
Reblogged this on Saya..D..Poet and commented:
Friends…do check ourselves if you are doing the same mistakes…I think many, including me, will realize that sometimes we judge people, without even realizing it or when we have no need to do so..or without even thinking about their reasons..
shail said:
Thanks for the reblog. 🙂 Yes, most of the time we don’t realize that subtly judging way of ours.
simple girl said:
Thanks for drilling this into my head once again..
My mother takes innumerable pictures.While I hate it..
Initially I would be irritated but now I have regained the better sense and am not bothered but why she does what, her business..
My only problem is when she pulls myself into her picture taking spree. Stand here, do this, do that – click click click. I end up getting mad at her..
I am not causing any disruption to her taking pictures, then why bother me ..
shail said:
I leave my children out of my pictures, except some occasional clicks 😀 But click pictures, I do a lot. Why else did I get a DSLR? 😛
ANooP said:
Lovely pictures Shail. I think you are good with your camera.
The reason why I click is because a) I like photography b) Kind of saving memories.
Anyway it was wonderful reading this piece. Look forward to reading more of your posts 🙂
Cheers!
shail said:
Both reasons for me too 🙂 But I somehow missed on that second point in my post!
Thank you for stopping by to comment, always welcome 🙂
ANooP said:
🙂
Bikramjit said:
I take so many pics .. each time i visit india I make sure i just click click clik because i feel god knows when i will be there next. and who will i see again..
lovely diwali pics I love fireworks…
shail said:
Aww… I can imagine your sentiments! You collect memories before you leave.
J1289 said:
To each their own !
I also like taking pictures too just so when I’m older I can go back in time and have all those memories since you can’t go back in time 🙂
shail said:
Bingo. I had pictures of my elder son taken every month till he turned 1. Those days we had to depend on studios. By then I acquired a camera and their growth and the many activities of the family has been documented and arranged neatly in albums 🙂
Always a pleasure to go back and take a look at the pictures 🙂
Roshni said:
My husband is also very interested in photography and he feels that night photography is the most difficult and therefore the most exciting! He loves taking photos of fireworks (and it really is difficult to get a good, clear shot of those), the moon, constellations and shadows!
Live and let live would be a good mantra for everyone to follow, no?!
shail said:
And it is a pleasure to try and get that good shot. It is like any other hobby which people attempt repeatedly. Yes, live and let live is the only answer 🙂
Ajay said:
Yes . I agree to u @ Shail Mohan.
I have the same question to people who ask me why do I waste my time blogging.
I just revert with a smile, but with a sarcasm.
dreamzandclouds said:
I click pictures for two main reasons – to capture the moment for posterity (pictures are a good way to re-visit the days gone by) or to share it in my blog or other social media. And yes, let people be and lets not waste our own time looking at what they are doing 😛