Red comes next to orange at the end of the visible spectrum of light.
Red is the color of danger and passion, of blood, of traffic lights that signal you to a stop, rubies, strawberries, communism, tomatoes, and fire-engines. It is also the color of anger and hatred. How some faces redden in anger! But anger is not the only emotion that does it, embarrassment and shyness also suffuses the face in shades of red. Red attracts attention like no other. The red hibiscus, birds with bright red plumage, red flags, they all immediately catch your eye. “Surveys show it is the color most frequently associated with visibility, proximity, and extroverts. It is also the color most associated with dynamism and activity.” (Wiki).
When I was around seven years of age, and my sister around 5, both of us had identical red pattu pavada (silk skirt) with a black border bought for us by our parents. It remains the one and only one that I have ever owned, and while I did, I loved and treasured it dearly. But of course that red pavada was chosen for us sisters by our parents. In the ensuing years, when selection rested in my own hands, red was allowed only very rare entries to my wardrobe. I stuck faithfully to pastel shades most of the time.
Once I got married, it was always off whites (my fav color) and other lighter shades or blacks and grays. Yeah, that latter had been the L & M’s influence. He loved what are called ‘sober’ colors and I went along, even to the extent that my two small children also ended up wearing blues and grays. One day while buying wool for knitting a sweater for my second born, the Second-in-Command’s wife asked me, ‘Why the dull colors? Why not red? Children look so good in bright colors!’ That’s it. I bought bright red wool, and I must say the son looked a sweet cherub in it.
By the time I was in my 40s it had been ages since I had worn red. I had decided I was too old for such a bright color as red. Talking to an older cousin one day, it dawned on me that SHE always wore red and it did not out of place. Why was I then shying away from the color? So tentatively, I got myself one dress in a shade of red, and from then on I have never looked back. I have now grown to like the color quite a lot.
Red has plenty of idioms and phrases to its credit too like the other colors: a red herring, red-blooded, red carpet treatment, be in the red, a red letter day, in the red, see red, red-light district, red-tape, catch red-handed, be like a red rag to the bull, go beet red, so on and so forth.
Though it not a sight that I cannot behold where I live, I love the red leaves of autumn that I have seen in pictures and on television. May be one day I will see it for myself. So ends the Red Day on a wishful note. And this also ends the series on colors of the rainbow for the Write Tribe Festival of Words.
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pennymcdaniel62 said:
Ah, I take red to be the color of PASSION, which you definitely have in your writing! Keep wearing red! It’s a color that says, “I’m alive!” Thanks for all of your wonderful posts during the Write Tribe series! I enjoyed your work.
Penny
shail said:
Thank you for the lovely comment Penny. And welcome to Shail’s Nest. 🙂
chsuresh63 said:
And a very colorful series it has been, Shail.
shail said:
Thanks Suresh. I should get to checking all other posts, now that I have some respite from my rather hectic schedule of the past days.
Holly Jahangiri said:
What a lovely way to look at red! Colors can reflect our moods; I think that our moods can also be affected by the colors we choose to wear. I’ve started forcing myself to wear bright jewel tones even when I’m not feeling it – maybe especially when I’m not. Never fails to perk me up a bit.
shail said:
I think you Welcome to Shail’s Nest, Holly Jahangiri 🙂 I tend to agree with you. Thanks for stopping by to leave your thoughts 🙂
Grace Grits and Gardening said:
Red is my favorite color! I so look forward to leaves turning to Autumn.
shail said:
Welcome to Shail’s Nest and thank you. 🙂
Suzy said:
Red is one of my favourite colours. It’s just so vibrant and always makes a dull scene bright. Enjoyed your VIBGYOR series Shail.
shail said:
Thanks Suzy. Red indeed changes everything around 🙂
Sulekha (@sulekkha) said:
I love red, and have a lot of dresses, shirts, T-shirts in this bright color. Your vibrant posts have been pleasing to the eye and the mind 🙂
shail said:
Thank you Sulekha 🙂 I love red too.
Usha Pisharody said:
Red. I kind of grew into it as well 🙂
Red they say, is the colour of winners too!
My sons are bonkers about red, as their favourite Football Club are nicknamed the Red Devils – and that is their colour as well.
In fact, for Onam, I’ve to go hunting for red pants, for both 😀
Red is an integral part of my wardrobe (lol, wattay word!) The number of red sarees I have, and wear, to school too, is a lot! And that’s why I stayed away from that shade for both the kids’ weddings 😀
Loved your shades of colours, and the shades of thought and introspection and nostalgia you brought with each.
shail said:
Wow, a family of red-fans, eh? 😀 Thank you Usha for reading all of them (and commenting) 🙂
subzeroricha said:
I love red a lot! And I will also now tell you a trivia on red. Red represents energy or excitement, or getting charged up. So there have been many cases where people jumped red lights and when questioned they had no idea why they did so.
After research it was found that a stop signal should never be read because by colour therapy it means to ‘go ahead’ and often people’s minds read just that. Thus red in the traffic light should have been for ‘go’. 🙂
and Shail I am sure you look stunning in a red dress 🙂 🙂
Richa
shail said:
Red is chosen for ‘stop’ for a different reason. It is something to do with its wavelength and/or that it scatters less as far as I know. I think those people who jumped red must have been color blind 😛 Or else the whole world should be jumping red lights regularly!
Thank you, Richa.
seena said:
Enjoyed the colourful series 🙂
I too avoided red as it too bright and visible, I always choose ‘sobre’ or pale colours. Even now if I have any dress close to red, it’s Maroon.
Isn’t it amazing that the same Red symbolizes anger & hatred and also love & passion? Might be because they are equally strong emotions though contradictory!
shail said:
I was like you, but now I opt for brighter colors. I wonder about that at times 🙂
True about red representing different emotions.
vishalbheeroo said:
There is no age to wear color of passion:) I love red for romance and passion. Superb 7, Shail:)
shail said:
I have started loving red. Thanks, Vishal 🙂
UmaS said:
Oh yeah, I too hesitated during my teens to wear red. But everything changed while I was wedding shopping for myself. I brought myself the brightest orange sari and a wine red sari and astounded myself. After that, I’ve thought that certain colors dont suit me.
Of course, fav always been black – can you imagine I got 2 saris in black for my bday 😉
shail said:
Black is somehow not my fav, but I do end up buying it 🙂
Claire 'Word by Word' said:
I just spent a weekend with my aunt who is sixty and she looks fabulous in red, so really there is no age limit and it sounds like you just need to ensure there is always something red and beautiful in your wardrobe for every age, you never know when the mood is going to strike you.
shail said:
I agree with you, Claire, no age for wearing any color. Welcome to Shail’s Nest and thanks for the comment. 🙂
sibichen said:
As we cross various stages in life, we tend to forego so much of our interests and likes. Initially, we refuse to change. Later, with much reluctance we change our preferences for the sake of the partner’s wishes. But we brood over it for long. After a few more years, we realize that the change was indeed for the better. I liked blue. Later changed to green. And, now I keep changing my preferences, as per the wish of my wife. And I have a lot of peace and happiness. Life is indeed colourful…..
Liked reading your article.
shail said:
That was interesting to note. Well, as for me, I am glad I broke free of my partner’s influence and now choose colors I prefer 😉
momofrs said:
LOL!! Your post reminds me SO much of my parents. Dad, being an upright Colonel, never let mom wear any bright shades. She too stuck to the ‘sober’ category for ages. Even now, she’s hesitant to wear the basic colours, sticking to her pastels for the most part.
My kids love red and look good in it too. I’m pretty much neutral towards it. Neither love nor hate it.
I’m partial towards blue though 🙂
shail said:
Being from the Sikh regiment I was always in the midst of brightest of bright colors worn by the ladies. That helped change my perspective of going only for pastel shades 🙂