Believe me folks, if someone had ever suggested to me before today that I’d be writing on the topic of mundu on my blog, I’d have laughed my head off at them. But such is life that today I am doing just that. For those who are not aware of what a mundu is: It is just an un-stitched rectangular piece of cloth people wear by wrapping it around their waists (more on Wiki). If you want a more precise look at how it is worn take a look at this video (link).
Let me make it clear at the outset, people. I am neither pro mundu nor against, but plain neutral about it. For me, it is just attire worn by people of certain regions. Period. I extend to it the same courtesy that I would show any other clothing worn by people anywhere in the world. So it is hardly surprising that I balked when I read this,
“Personally I find Mundu quite disgusting.”
Actually speaking, unless there is dirt or muck sticking to it, there is nothing “disgusting” about a mundu. But then, I do agree that people have the right to have their own “personal” opinions about what is “disgusting” to them. Look at my own example: I am totally disgusted by people who are disgusted by what others wear. Yet I take it philosophically when the ‘disgusting’ word is used for mundu. Free country and all that you know, and the right to be “disgusted” is after all everyone’s very birthright. Right? Besides, am I not a champion of freedom of speech? So yeah, a declaration that the simple mundu is too “disgusting” for someone’s sophisticated tastes only makes me shrug and say ‘Bring on the ‘disgust’ in barrels, and happily drown yourself in it if you so wish! No skin off my nose.’
You know what amuses and amazes me? Sometimes it so happens that you hear (or read) a whole lot of sense from someone or other and are nodding away, suitably impressed when suddenly they go off at a tangent and spout something that leaves you in shock. Which is really speaking good (not the shock per se, but that people opened their mouth and let out what’s actually in their mind), for it is then that you get a glimpse of the invisible worm gnawing away from the inside of an the otherwise perfect looking apple. I thought I spotted one such worm when I read what followed the above “disgusted” statement.
“For me it’s only popular because it’s easy to take off (aid for forced sex).”
Actually the immediate reaction to reading this had been a severe pain in my lower jaw. You see, the jaw had dropped without warning on the hard cement floor in shocked amazement. When I was done with picking the jaw off the floor and rubbing it hard, I had still not recovered. I mean, I have heard of brainless idiocy brainy brilliance, but this, I thought, tipping my invisible hat with reverence, took the proverbial ignoramus cake. The popularity of the dress of a region had just been ARBITRARILY linked to forced sex without so much as by your leave. And ONLY for the reason that it is something that can be removed with ease.
What are you waiting for, all ye mundu lovers? Go drown yourself in a glass of water. And while on your way, don’t forget to take off your “disgusting” mundu and cover your faces with it. Oh the shame! To think that the reason our forefathers loved their mundu in the past, and the present day popularity of it among grandfathers, fathers, uncles, brothers, cousins, sons, friends, neighbors et al is because it is convenient for them when the mood strikes for forced sex… Chi chi chi! How much more worse can it get?
Wait a minute. We women also wear mundu in good old mundu land. Does that mean we are forced-sex (or easy sex) seeking damsels? Life is not worth living after hearing this. Pass me that mundu, please. Let me just go hang myself with it.
Note: If you cannot see the sarcasm, stay OUT of my page. I don’t suffer fools gladly. That is the reason I wrote this in the first place. I despair that someone actually said what they did. If you think about it, a sari or skirt, that is so popular among women, does not even need to be taken off. What does that make women who wear them and show off acres of their flesh? I don’t think the person who said the above gave a thought to that. If I stand for women not being judged by what they wear, I extend the same courtesy to men. Banning mundu (or any attire) will not make decent men out of indecent ones. If SOME men wearing mundu have harassed women, DON’T blame the mundu, blame the men who did it.
Santulan said:
Arre it is the same like a guy saying that he finds it disgusting to see a girl in shorts..
I personally find lungis comfortable.. I have been meaning to get a mundu for myself for some time now..
shail said:
Yes, that is exactly the point I am stressing.
Shall I send you a mundu? 😀
Santulan said:
You have my address 🙂 Gifts are always welcome 😀
Vivek said:
I thought it could have been longer post for once. I have never worn a mundu but have worn it’s first cousin called a ‘lungi’ (blue checks and so on). This fantastic thought about ‘easy removal’ never struck me and then as you have pointed out the sari suddenly came to mind. So that is the reason of our population boom..men in mundu/lungi and women in sari. When will we realize that sexuality is in the mind and not in the attire?
shail said:
When indeed?! And yes, looks like that is the reason for the increasing population 😛
amira said:
Even here in our local language we call it Mundu 🙂
I guess Mundu is just a weather-friendly piece of clothing in our tropical heat.
shail said:
True, it is appropriate for our weather conditions.
Gulshan said:
‘Gob-smacked’ is the word i’d use
This is nothing short of verbal abuse
Since when has attire been an issue
To forcibly tear up vaginal tissue
If it wasn’t so pathetic, it would sorely amuse!
shail said:
I wholeheartedly agree: “If it wasn’t so pathetic, it would sorely amuse”
Madhu said:
I don’t believe someone actually wrote that!! What a twisted mind! And I doubt the author will ‘get’ your sarcasm 🙂 I personally think you can’t beat a crisp white mundu and kurta in elegance, and make sure hubby always wears that to weddings and pujas.
shail said:
Madhu, that’s exactly what I thought and wrote when I first read it, that I couldn’t believe someone actually said that. Ahh you like the crisp white mundu! 🙂
vishalbheeroo said:
fun post. But, I feel to each its own as long as one doesn’t exceed decency. One may wear for being comfy and not for being leechy.
Cheerz
shail said:
It is the dress of a region and that’s why they wear it. 🙂
Random Musings by Swati said:
An indecent man can be indecent with or without a mundu! The sarcasm is pretty evident and I really loved the way you have worded it. Keep up the good work. Take Care.
shail said:
That’s my point. Decency does not depend on attire.
Thanks 🙂
Bhavya (@Bhav_Zz) said:
I still fail to understand what the poor mundu did to deserve all this. If girls can wear anything they please, why can’t the men?
shail said:
Yeah, I have the same question. 🙂
Laxmi Chundi Addanki said:
OMG… I hope the disgusted mundu hater treads this way, snatches it from your hand and does what you were contemplating to do 😉
shail said:
That would be putting mundu to a good use, eh? 😉
Ruchira said:
wow there is no end to weirdos is there !
you are right. If we can fight for women to wear what they want we must extend the same curtsy to men !
shail said:
Practice what you preach. Isn’t it? 🙂
Anonymously Disguised said:
I am glad you wrote about this. I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw that stupid sentence and couldn’t even bother to finish reading the rest of the post after that.
shail said:
I know. It has been rankling all these days till I finally wrote it. There is a limit to even absurdity/stupidity.
afshan18 said:
Lovely !
I didnt even know its called mundu 😀 I thought its a travelogues or a cuisine when I read mundu any one 😛 LOL !
and coming to the post am glad u wrote this. I hope that some one reads this. The last sentence in the note took the cake. Blame the men not the mundu ! SO TRUE and why would some one feel its for forced sex
am baffled but the interpretations r funny !
shail said:
Really! No idea what she based her logic on (if it had any logic in the first place!)!
radha said:
I know what you are talking about Shail, my jaw’s still in pain. 🙂 and i had such nice fantasies about white mundu’s and kurthas.. sigh
shail said:
And along comes this woman and tarnishes those fantasies! Not fair. Errr… how is the jaw now? 🙂
sridevi1974 said:
I personally find mundus attractive and dignified just as I find saris and skirts feminine . And even if one particular mundu wearer had been indecent , it certainly is not the fault of the mundu , but of the wearer who could have made a pass even if he was dressed in spiderman dresss …Such myopic statements annoy me no end and I really wish the person who wrote it will read this post of yours 🙂
shail said:
‘Myopic’ describes it very well! I hope she reads as well 😉
Usha Pisharody said:
Atta Gurl!
I read this when shared on FB, as a newspaper article or something, I think. Not sure. As Gulshan has said, I was gob-smacked, reading it. As you say, what a person wears, is entirely his/her business… and the attire per se, is not what should be disgusting, it is the wearer’s intent, and behaviour. Period.
I loved your reply.
Incidentally, the set mundu is MY favourite attire. Gosh, I’m now disgusting??? 😛
shail said:
This is part of mail in reaction to the same news you are referring to. And just think of it, how we used to wear the mundu in the past? No blouse, and an ‘onnara’ beneath it, not the sari petticoat! We were a positively “disgusting” lot! *gasp* 😉 😛
Corinne Rodrigues said:
The mundu aside, I do like what you said about people revealing themselves and their pettiness – shocking you, and yet making you glad you saw this side of them – so you can be wary. Am I getting cynical in my old age or what? 😉
shail said:
It disappoints me so much each time it happens. I guess I have not yet become totally cynical. 😉
Dagny said:
This is the same mindset that blames the victim of sexual abuse by saying their attire/ behavior invited what they got because they must’ve been asking for it.
Morons!
How’s the jaw now? 😀
shail said:
The jaw is back to normal 😀 Thanks for asking.
Agree that it is much the same mindset in both cases.
Mom of A and a said:
Oh dear! Now I’m wishing I knew the original story from which this stems, because it is completely unimaginable to me how this person came to any of the conclusions made!!
shail said:
The original was a news item from Calicut where the ban was proposed for autowalas. Then came a commentary on it.
scorpria said:
Jeeezassss! Gobsmacked, twice in one post!
No lack of sick weirdos in this world, is there?
Ugh to you, you ridiculous person! Yes, you!
shail said:
Ahh Priya. I was actually waiting for you to read this. This was carrying ridiculousness to new heights. Isn’t it?