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Last December, Hitchy posted a blog about visiting Narmada (link), with beautiful pictures to feast eyes on. Suranga, who was the first to comment said, among other things, that she enjoyed the post and ‘would love to do a trip there one day’. Hitchy was all for it and said he’d be only happy too happy to welcome her to his part of the world. That’s where I came in.
“Hitchy, please arrange a bloggers meet!”
A trifle direct, what? It was actually wishful thinking as a result of all those fine photographs. Oh, how I wish I could be there enjoying the scenery and taking pictures too. When those feelings translate to words, they do come out direct. This was promptly seconded by IHM. The rest as they say, is history. A seed was sown and from it would germinate a bloggers meet with a difference.
Why do I say ‘a bloggers meet with a difference’? I will explain.
I have been watching blogger meetings happening with regularity in Delhi, Mumbai, Bangalore et al. Initially I did feel I was missing out on something as I was unable to attend any. They were all happening far away from my own small city. Blogger friends were meeting each other and could be seen having a good time too. Yet, as each meet unfolded one after the other before my eyes, via write ups and pictures on blogs and Facebook, my desire to attend them evaporated pretty quickly. One question troubled me, ‘Were these actually blogger meets?’ Of course when bloggers congregate at one place it is technically a bloggers’ meet. But (and this is a personal opinion) to me they looked more like meets set up by sponsors to garner publicity for their own products through blogger community. Those who attended them of course seemed to be happy doing so, and came away with goodies and memories. Like I always say, each to his/her own. I knew it was just not my cup of tea. As someone who has met quite a few of her blogger-mates, I prefer a one to one meeting where the agenda is not allowing a third party to intrude trying to impress you with their product, but just indulging in some good chit chat and letting ourselves be.
A get-away for a weekend with fellow bloggers, where each of us sponsored our own selves, seemed just my kind of thing. We could travel together to a chosen destination, relax in the company of each other, get to know one another (as much or as less as we wanted) and return refreshed. Sounds a good idea, right?
BUT
Planning getaways of any sort need some organizational skills, the ability to rally people around and interact with them. I simply suck at that. I am a very, very poor human resources person. I can never get people to do anything I want. There is one particular story as yet untold, which illustrates the point most clearly. It relates to what happened when the L & M became the second-in-command of his army unit which resulted in his ‘lady wife’ (no prizes for guessing who) being forced upward in the hierarchy and having to deal with those lower in the rung. Not having the required skill, and least of all, the desire to make a gaggle of army wives toe the line, I was walked all over. Okay, now that I have caught myself infamously (but predictably) digressing, let me stop right here and go back to the topic at hand.
When Hitchy pinged me after the comment exchange spoken of above, saying that we could make the bloggers meet happen if there were interested parties, I was certainly happy, but I was equally wary about being hauled in for organizational duties. I was NOT going to have any of that headache in my peaceful life. I’d rather stay at home and look at pictures on my computer. So I told him upfront about my non-existent people management skills. No worries about that, the brave guy (so it seems to me) said, I will do all the necessary work. I don’t mind in the least. Phew, better he than me, I remember thinking.
True to his word, he took it upon himself and made it happen, all via mails (after all this is the net age) from contacting people, to choosing the location, booking the transportation as also accommodation and of course most important of all, doing the calculations as to who owed how much. It certainly is not an easy job, but he did it. One must always give the devil his due (and by that I don’t mean at all that Hitchy is a devil). So, kudos to you, Hitchy, for pulling this off!
As a result, there we were at Chandigarh on 10th late evening, (a much smaller crowd than had originally been intended due to the many last minute dropouts), having converged from all over the place, mostly from Delhi and Bangalore, also from Indore. But guess who traveled the farthest to make it to the trip? Who else, but yours truly, and mind you all the way from the southern most part of India?! Many of us were meeting each other for the first time outside the virtual blog-world. In fact I was meeting ALL of those who had assembled for the very first time. I was familiar with the blogs of some, others I had only started reading after knowing they had joined the trip. But we had a whole weekend ahead, not to mention the journey time, to get to know each other, didn’t we?
Unfortunately, not much getting-to-know happened initially as far as I was concerned. Soon after the tempo traveller left Chandigarh and started its upward climb, motion sickness hit me and I went into hibernation. But the rest of them had fun times, singing and making merry, gorging on snacks (which each of us had got on explicit orders from Hitchy). Past midway to our destination, we had a hot-Maggi-cum-chai-stop on the way and while there the skies suddenly opened up. Not that the rain dampened spirits. Hail that followed actually only lifted them even higher. Trooping back contentedly into the vehicle we travelled some more and reached our destination at almost lunch time, much to my relief.
The rain had predictably brought the temperature down and there was a chilly wind blowing too. It had some of us (I being one of them) scramble for our jackets. Next followed our long (it seemed long!) walk to the camp site. The scenic beauty all around was pretty awesome. But lugging the luggage took up all my breath and energy that I had no time or inclination to stop and take pictures. Can you believe that? First I wanted to get that goddamn bag off my back, drink some water and get my breath back. Then I would look around at the beautiful pine and apple trees, the sky, the daisies, the mules, the chubby birds… well you get the drift. On the wrong side of an unfit 50, you don’t exactly expect me to run with the younger herd, do you?
What do I say about the rest of the time we spent at Kufri? It rained, there was a chilly wind, it was colder than we expected, but the bottom line is, we enjoyed our stay. Actually I ‘enjoyed’ the chilly wind and the rain so very much that I thought wistfully of the Delhi heat (which magically turned to wistful thoughts of chilly Kufri as soon as I landed in Delhi). Apart from ‘enjoying’ the weather, sitting around the bukhara drinking chai (the black tea with cardamom and ginger was amazing) we had chat sessions at meal times in the central ‘canteen’ and also in our cabins. It was interesting for me (I don’t know if anyone else felt that way) to find the ‘real’ life person had qualities that were somehow different from the person we saw as the blogger. Was the projected image more of the reader’s imagination? Or was there a difference? I think I need to meet more people before I can say conclusively. A few of us also found time to have discussions on whether we can or should ‘preserve’ language/culture during morning chai time only to have to give it up when the place was invaded by other guests increasing the noise levels considerably. The same way a couple of us had just sunk our teeth into whether there is need for a man to give up his seat to a lady when dinner was announced, and we had to drop the subject. On Sunday, the younger lot made a trip to nearby Chail undeterred by the cold or on and off falling rain. I am waiting to read about their experience in one of their blogs. IHM and I preferred to stay back and utilize each break in the weather to do some bird photography. We had an excellent bird spotter in IHM’s daughter. The flora was as interesting to capture too, not to talk of the raindrops, my favorite subject.
As irony would have it on Monday morning when it was time to leave, Mr. (Meanie) Sun made a belated appearance, grinning broadly. ‘Hope you had a nice time people!’ he seemed to ask. We looked right back at him and said, “Of course!” And anyways, I have always loved the Dark Cloud.
manjulikapramod said:
Wow.. so kool.. this is actually a true bloggers meet…
actually the ones happening in big cities do give us chance to network and bring back goodies but the memories do not last long… the pics are grt too.. 🙂
shail said:
Exactly the way I feel 🙂
Thanks Manjulika 🙂
Usha Pisharody said:
Sigh. Sitting in the sweltering late afternoon heat, even though there is a cool breeze outside, and the fan on inside, I cannot but think of how heavenly some rain, cold, and hail must be! The grass as they say… (definitely, literal here 🙂 )!!!
I’ve been following all those pictures on the FB group and the watching from the outside, the interactions. Sounded fun. I hope the next one that is planned will be for a longer time, so that people may get to know more, of people they’d like to 😀
And Hitchy, congrats on pulling it off 🙂 The pictures were all so lovely!
shail said:
I hope when there is a next one, you would join us too. Hmm…, I am talking as if it is a given that I’d be there 😀 Hope you got to see the FB album I posted too 🙂
Usha Pisharody said:
Nope, not the album. Been very erratic owing to hectic schedules of travelling, and worrying out here 😀 Could you inbox me on FB?
shail said:
Sure 🙂
Santulan said:
I remember what bonesy and Jr. said.. Older siblings are evil.. hmpf 👿
Santulan said:
You guys had loads of fun.. Getting to know each other too.. It happens many times though, that people whom we know only through the net or mobile turn to be slightly or majorly different in RL..
Kudos to Supremo for all the bringing together and organizing he did. One can only imagine all that he had to arrange..
Santulan said:
I must thank you all though, for us who could not be there… you all shared enough pics to give us a virtual tour
Santulan said:
no reference of the
supposedtalk session about Sakshi?shail said:
And what did I do that makes me evil? 😛
hitchy said:
Finally a bloggers propah account of the bloggers meet… I myself intend to do a post of my own but have just not gotten around to doing the post. 🙂
Hopefully this weekend. Yes that Chail trip with the clouds below or among us has to be described and that Dhaba Lunch… but I can understand you loathing the idea of the Bus travel after the journey up and down… I still somehow also felt the time was a little rushed… but well you can’t have everything..
I am just glad that it all happened and I got to meet so many people who I had not met and yet were an integral part of my life 🙂
I must thank you for encouraging me to drink that black tea which I am beginning to start loving 🙂 wish we could have many more such morning discussions and meetings many times more 🙂
Santulan said:
August has so many chhutis in the middle of the week.. How about baroda or bharuch?
shail said:
Will wait fro your post Hitchy. I am sure its going ot be interesting. Besides, I want to hear about the Chail part of it. Time WAS rushed. We needed more time to just chill and do nothing 🙂
Well Hitchy, many more can happen you know if you look at this as a beginning. The black tea was really special. Glad that both you and Meena liked it. IHM and I liked it anyway! 🙂
Smita said:
Aha!!! Finally Someone hears me. This is the kind of of post that I was asking fo in FB nd I was made fun of!!!! 😀
I wih I cud hve oined u guys but it was not to be..
U surely had fun and trust me I these are the kind of meets that I heart for. I am yet to attend any of those organised by various platforms. They are just too fixed up…I mean they want us for their own purpose!!!
Lovely write up & yes Devil shud be credited where he deserves it and Dhiren gets a pat on his back for showing us that this doable and that there surely can be a next time 🙂
shail said:
I heard you 😉 Actually this should have been up much earlier. I fell ill on my return and this got delayed.
The fact that the organised meets want us for a purpose is a great put off. This trip should be an inspiration for another. May be we can make it a yearly event or something, different places. Possibilities are many 🙂 (And I am talking too much when it is poor Hitchy who did all the work!) 😉
phoenixritu said:
I missed this. I cant walk, I can’t haul luggage, but I would have given it a go, had I got the opportunity. How about Corbett in the rains?
shail said:
You know Ritu, you were my hope. I thought I’d have company. I can’t haul luggage either. That’s why I have those thingumabobs with wheels. But they are so useless in such places. Tell you what, next time we should choose a place where we don’t have to haul luggage. I am game for any place. I am game for any place as far as autumn hasn’t descended on the tree in my backyard 😉 😛
vishalbheeroo said:
that’s totally awesome and thks for sharing the meet..one day we shall meet
PS Nominated u for a bunch of awards. Plz accept
Vishal
Vivek said:
All I can say is ‘wish i were there’. Congratulations to Dhiren for organizing this trip so well. There is always a next time of course.
indrani said:
You took me there again Shail.
When I agreed to the trip I was doubtful if it would ever happen and with many bloggers dropping out one by one, I was sure “I wouldn’t be surprised if the meet would be called off”. But then we nine made it to the meet finally.
And yes the best part was there was no agenda for the meet. 🙂
Anonymously Disguised said:
Finally someone managed to write about it rather than tease us with provoking pics 😛
Shail this is the exact kind of meet I would love to be part of. I share your same feelings for the sponsored bloggers meet.
Haa Hitchy is getting phamous left and right for organizing a meet sans any other male blogger. 👿
This post was a pleasure to read.
Roshni said:
Wow! I so wish I could have also gone on the trip! Looks like you all had such a fantastic time!
I’m not surprised that you found people’s personalities to be different from what you would imagine reading their blog. I’m sure you will feel the same if and when you meet me as I tend to be much more open when I write! 🙂
Deeps said:
This truly seemed like a bloggers meet with a difference! I so wish I had joined you all. Thoroughly enjoyed reading this beautiful write up Shail 🙂
Rachna said:
Wow, that is an amazing feat to pull off. I often wonder how it would be meeting all the people we interact with virtually in a totally carefree setting. And, I agree that bloggers in real life will be probably different from their online persona. Lovely post!
Corinne Rodrigues said:
I can so identify for your need to meet bloggers personally, Shail. I’ve recently sworn off all blogger meetings for the simple reason that there’s no real conversation that happens at these organized events.
That Hitchy and all of you made this adventure happen is really creditable. I’m so glad it turned out to be a memorable experience.
pixie said:
Finally a post!! 🙂
beautiful.. I totally enjoyed seeing Kurfi and Chail thru these photos and posts!!
And you are right about Blogger meets. I’m glad I have had the opportunity to meet folks outside of a typical bloggers’ meet and I’m happy to say that most of them are my friends! Esp, Monica and Hitchy! 😉
Suzy said:
Thanks for sharing your wonderful experience. I agree, blogger meetups should be about connecting with people not connecting with companies. Sounds like even the hiding sun couldn’t put a damper on your spirits. Thanks for sharing;
Bhavya (@Bhav_Zz) said:
Wow… this is a blogger meet in the true sense 🙂
afshan18 said:
For sure seems happening.
Saw many of ur kufri pics which were heavenly ! I would love to be a part of such meet too if I knew few people 🙂
Indiblogger meets etc r good when U KNOW A BIG GROUP or else like u said its all sponsoring !
Grt post
hav fun
Vidya Sury said:
Sounds like a fab experience, Shail. Where are the Kufri pictures? 🙂 Blogger meets are sponsored things and the agenda is something else. I am lucky I knew a large group of people I could hang out with in the couple of meets I did manage to attend.
Cheers!
divorceddoodling said:
I would love to have been a part of a real bloggers meet. Blogger meets in five star hotels with lots of give aways generate a buzz that is interesting. BUT – we bloggers are writers, we’re a little introspective and we do like to meet in smaller groups and discuss real issues. Great idea…well, next time I hope.
shail said:
That’s exactly my point too. Yeah, I hope too that there is a next time. I love travel 🙂
divorceddoodling said:
🙂 🙂 🙂 Cheers to that
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