Comments on: The Non-Workers??

By: Shail

Shail — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 09:00:09 +0000

Hey Noor, glad to see you here! Lol, actually I really wonder what people mean by work. I onc told my husband that in the future it would be politically incorrect to ask anyone “Do you work??” of course he didn’t see my point or agree with me. But I certainly feel it is not proper to ask someone if they work. A homemaker may be doing less work or unpaid work compared to a career woman. But it is still WORK!

By: momofrs

momofrs — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 06:55:19 +0000

You hit the nail on the head Shail!!
House work is indeed a most thankless job (No wonder I run away from it to something that, well, pays )
And home-makers are the hardest workers. They work over-time, correction, they work ALL the time and they are taken for granted.
I think it takes a lot of courage and stamina to decide on being a home-maker.
Kudos to you (I seem to be saying that a lot, isn’t it ?! )

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To speak or not to speak | Shail's Nest — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 07:15:34 +0000

[...] it, suggests the smiles, she who cannot even lay claims to being a ‘working’ woman, she of the homemaker fame??!! Naturally so they cannot ‘see’ anything other than the tips of their respective noses down [...]

By: Jen

Jen — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 13:19:32 +0000

You’re right, how people perceive “work” has changed considerably over time. For me, “work” turned out to be something I didn’t really like to do; something I was forced to do; something set in a banal grey office, between the hours of 9-5 (or longer), from monday to friday (or longer), doing the same set of tasks, attending.. meetings (I can barely type the word).

After the corporates tried to suck my soul, I came to my senses, quit my job and started my own venture called – funnily enough – “Nonworkers”(which is obviously how I stumbled across your article). Non-work meant the opposite of work as I knew it.

And I don’t miss “work” one bit. In fact, I *hope* to never have to go back. Obviously the experience is different for everyone, but could it be that these “workers” just wish they were you?

Jen, thanks for the comment. Well, I wonder about that too, if the workers wish they were me??!!

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“Do you work??” | Shail's Nest — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 05:10:41 +0000

[...] is a homemaker does?? An esteemed blogger once nearly jumped at my throat for wondering out loud (The Non-Workers??) why people insist on asking homemakers, ‘Do you work??’ when what they do obviously is work [...]